WHAT OUR LOVE IS NOT ABOUT This song came to me while reflecting upon my early relationship with my wife Nancy. Many people told us to never go to bed angry or with unfinished business concerning our feelings for each other. I think we've always done a pretty good job with that however, there have been a few times that I remember being so frustrated that I had not been honest enough to act immediately on what I truly felt. I would blurt out some comment before thinking about how it might affect this beautiful woman I loved. I think the song lends itself to that season of a relationship when each person is still learning the other's complexities. It's a growing process we all go through. Hang in there.